What a strong, supportive friendship can look like

Let's explore what strong, supportive friendships can look like.

Surface level friendships, where there is a bare minimum of time, energy and emotional investment, are not nearly as fulfilling as strong, supportive friendships. Let's explore what strong, supportive friendships can look like.

A friend who inspires you to be your best self

A friendship where you can support each other to be better people, inspire each other when lacking motivation and be there for each other through ups and downs. Ultimately, you want to see each other succeed and you want to do everything you can for your friend to support them along their journey.

A friend who holds you accountable in a loving way

A friendship where you hold each other accountable, offer feedback, help each other learn from mistakes and do so in a way that comes from a place of strength.

A friend who truly understands and values you as a person

For those times when you forget who you are or do not feel like yourself, a friend offers a glimpse into who you truly are and can ground you and remind you of your values.

A friend who thinks highly of you

Friendships can help you to see the beauty in your imperfections and help you appreciate your strengths. To have a strong and supportive friendship means to be friends with someone who gets you, cares for you and only wants the best for you.

Be there for your friends. Enjoy the delight of the good times, and don’t shy away from your friend if they’re having a tough time. Having a friend who is gently alongside you can make all the difference.

Karen

Te Herenga Waka staff member